STEPS
1. Invite some friends over, and watch some chick flicks. Get fun and upbeat movies like "John Tucker Must Die"
2. Get some money, and get a new haircut that is fun and flirty, and invest in some new makeup!
3. Grab a good book, and some jelly beans (any candy/food works) and just get lost in the book
4. Spend a day with other single friends and spend the night rating cute (single) guys! Find a new crush! You never know!
5. Open your mind and realize that if he deserved you, he would be with you.
6. Throw a party.
7. Call your friends and have a good laugh!
8. Shop! Splurge!
9. Write down every single thing that annoyed you about him. Then read it and realize he is not only not perfect, but also not perfect for you.
10.Exercise! Work it, girlfriend! Over the weekend work out, eat great and when the weekend's over, he's going to take one look and say "Boy, she does look good."
11. If you delete him from your buddylist, phonebook, and everything else. Completely stop messaging - texting - calling - IMing - spending time - with him all together and you will get over him.
12. The more time you spend thinking about him, the harder it will be to get over him.Remind yourself that he's just another guy.
13.If he flirts with you, then ignore him. He's like a mosquito; you have to swat him.
TIPS
1. You can always just cry and get it all out of your system so you don't have to worry about it.
2. Remember that there are millions of other guys out there.
3. Don't be mad at yourself if a guy ever turns you down. There always is a reason for something happening. You might never figure it out though.
4. Accept that you're still attracted to that guy, but try to become interested in other guys.
5. Chocolate and ice cream are good, but don't overdo it.
6. You have to try to stay optimistic.
7. Try to avoid spending time with him if possible. It's harder to get over someone you're always thinking about.
8. Know that there is someone perfect out there for you, not a jerk that broke your heart.
9. Write a letter to him explaining how you feel but do not send it.
10. Delete his number from your phone to avoid texting and calling him.
11. Don't be fooled by his charm when you bump into him
12. Get a pet. Play with it, take care of it. It's a much better replacement than dating another guy you don't really like.
13. Start introducing yourself to other guys....then get their number and call and talk to them.
14. Go out partying with friends.. TO AVOID SEEING HIM.. that doesn't mean go out to the same party you know hes going to be at.
15. Secretly put your friend's favorite candy in their pocket and watch them wonder how it got there. If you focus your energy outwards to make someone happy, you'll forget all about ol' whatshisname!
16. EXERCISE! it really helps. and leaves you feeling re- charged and gives you time to think and stuff :D
17. Start looking extra hot so you get attention from other guys. It gives you confidence and it might help earn you someone else.
18. If he starts being charming, think of it as a cheap way of comming on to you. That way he'll seem stupid and desprate. (the more turn offs the better.)
WARNINGS
1. You can splurge if you want to for a day BUT remember not to always turn to food for comfort.
2. Always listen to your friend's judgments-to a certain extent.
3. This guy, or any other, could always turn out to be a jerk. Keep your guard up.
4. Do not hang out in places where you might find him. Being around him will be hard to get over him.
5. Keep yourself from talking about him. Wether it's good or bad you will only find him more appealing. (write down all of his flaws at the most.)