Yesterday I had a disturbing chat with a stranger in facebook. I was chatting with my boyfriend on YM while playing Sims Social, and suddenly this person D.N…I don’t know if that even his real name, said hi and start asking questions like he wanted to get to know me. He thinks it is okay to skip the introduction part and so sure that I’m interested to get to know him since it was in facebook where you get to know people. He started asking me some personal questions that I really am not comfortable about. Judging from his questions, he probably went through my info page and asks if I already got a job. I was thinking that maybe he wanted to offer me a job but when I ask why he wanted to know he said, “I just want to know”. I didn’t really want to share something that isn’t certain because I’m still in line with other candidates for the second interview so I said “Well, I don’t think I want to share that information with you (I put a smiley face so that he understands it)”…suddenly he was pissed and said there is no reason for me to keep it a secret and he said that with that kind of attitude, I wouldn’t go far in any job. I replied why should I tell you because I want to keep it a secret and if I tell you where I applied the job can you reassure that I get that job? I don’t tell people about this why should I tell you, a complete stranger and why the hell you want to be pissed about it? He was not satisfied and added that not all degree graduates are smart and just because I got a degree doesn’t mean that I’m not stupid. You barely know me and you call me stupid, I was pissed but I keep myself compose because I think maybe he just had a rough day or pitiful life and he was envy of how I accomplished something in my life and he does not so he pick a random victim so that he can act all superior and ticks other people to reassure he was not the only one who is miserable in this world. I said to myself, who the hell is this maniac who claims that he was right and got all the wisdom from experience and I’m a fresh meat who still got a lot to learn which I totally agree and he is in the right place to give me advices since he was smarter because he got a lot experience and all I got is a piece of degree??? He claimed that he doesn’t get a chance to further study in any university so what right he has saying I’m stupid? Clearly he doesn’t know how much a student has to endure to get a degree? He talks as in my 18 years effort to get a degree is nothing and simply come into conclusion that I’m stupid? He has no right to say that because he doesn’t even know me and doesn’t he realize calling people stupid is belittling Allah SWT works? He doesn’t pay for my courses and did not experience the hardwork that I put into, does that make him able to say those hurtful things to people he barely knows? He is actually belittle the effort of every student who work hard and sacrifice a lot so that he can satisfy his pathetic ego! He said that I shouldn’t be angry when he calls me stupid because he was right, because he has more experience than I do. I then ask if I call you stupid, would you be angry? When I called him stupid, he was crazily angry and said that I should repent and he pitied me for studying so far but has little brain. I tell you, what my lecturer said…having lots of experience doesn’t make you smart, when older people like your parents tell you what to do and don’t do things they don’t like you to is simply because they made more mistakes and have become stupid first to become smart about things later. That’s why they don’t want you to repeat the same mistakes they did because they have experience the outcomes. Calling people stupid doesn’t make you smart, it shows how stupid you are because you saying things you don’t even know and you say it to make you look smart, but really, you don’t.
Whoever wants to read our chats, I will gladly email it to you…at least you learn how to avoid people like that…and I’m so agree that the world will be a much better place if there are no people who think they are smart and say wrong things and resulted to disaster. I personally think this type of people is the one who starts the wars. They want to show how superior they are by stepping other people and ruin other people’s lives. Shame on you and please grow up before you advising people.
Do you know the difference between education and experience? Education is when you read the fine print; experience is what you get when you don't.
-Pete Seeger
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