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Friday, June 28

simple recipe: chicken with soy sauce


please excuse the poor quality image

Servings: 2

Ingredients:
1/4 Chicken - cut accordingly (I prefer medium size pieces)
Red onion - slice into rings
Garlic - chop roughly
Ginger - slice thinly
Chili/bird's eye chili a.k.a cili padi - cut to your preference
1 potato - slice into wedges
1 tbs oyster sauce
2 tbs chili sauce
1 tbs soy sauce
Salt and cooking oil
1/2 cup of water

Method:
Fry potato wedges and set aside.
Fry chicken cuts and set aside.
Heat 2 tbs of cooking oil. Throw in red onion and ginger, after awhile add in garlic and chili.
In low heat, add in oyster sauce (stir), chili sauce (stir), soy sauce (stir) and water.
Add salt to taste.
Finally add in fried chicken cuts and potato.

Wednesday, June 26

whole again

One of my many fave, not many know this song but seriously any guy who likes me should listen to this song. Always a fan of slow rock~ Rape the play button!

Whole Again by Edge of Fire (Malaysian band)


a photo of me and eleven random facts

Excerpt from a blog tag game.


  1. I am easily annoyed with mostly the things people do for example when they stop abruptly in the middle of a busy sidewalk or chew with mouth open.
  2. The only singer I will not get bored of listening to is Mariah Carey, my most fave is Hero.
  3. I love movie/tv show with medieval theme such as Lord of the Rings and Game of Thrones.
  4. The only country I have ever been to (except my birth country) is China and the realization of being in China only hits me when I saw the Great Wall of China.
  5. I hate the smell/taste of anything coffee.
  6. I am jobless when I post this entry – been trying to get a job not that my resume is not impressive but it's not great either...just average.
  7. I am a very bad driver, I prefer sitting in the co-pilot seat.
  8. I love masculine-themed interior décor.
  9. I've eaten worm and given a toad a bath during a team-building event without hesitation – looking back, I don't understand how on earth I manage to do them, maybe I was annoyed with the crap activities the facilitators made us do/I'm just tired and want to get it over with quickly. Overall, quite enjoy it, kinda.
  10. I like smart guy over good looking guy.
  11. I don't know how to swim because I'm afraid of the deep water but ironically, I would like to scuba-dive one day.

how to be just friends with a guy



I have a few guy friends and some are my bestfriends. A girl and a guy can be just friends if both agreed to it. Here are some tips on to befriend a guy without leading him on according to my experience.

Set your boundaries right from the very beginning

Make it clear that you want to be just friends and not more than that but in time, when the time is right...marrying your bestfriend is sometimes the best decision. Before that happen, ensure both party understand the situation and agree on friendship.

Do not flirt

When we meet someone from the opposite sex, we tend to flirt if we find the guy attractive. But if you wanted to be just friends, avoid gesture that suggest you are flirting. Flatter is okay but not too much, flatter when it is necessary. Avoid wearing something sexy or provocative. Do not always let the guy open the door for you, avoid being with just him for too long and too often, pay for each others meal – do not let him pay for your meal always, avoid touching him or look him directly in the eyes when he speaks – just act casually or nonchalantly but make sure he knows you are listening. Do not fool him into thinking he has a chance to be your boyfriend by not sending the wrong message to him.

Do not use pet name

Call him by his name...avoid pet name or using it in a sentence, eg: "yes, my dear..."

Avoid talking about past relationship or love life

In my opinion, it is okay to confide but don't go all out because if you do, you will be vulnerable and he might think that you need him. Of course, a friend in need is a friend indeed but remember your boundaries. Avoid commenting on his date or girlfriend or the girl that he likes, just let him decide as people learn from mistake if he does make one. Just be there for him if he needs a friend.

Be straightforward

If he cross the boundaries, let him know. Tell him what you can do or cannot do for him as both are from the opposite sex there are things you cannot do that may lead him on. Now and then, remind him how lucky you are that both of you are friends.

us as students hanging out together @aeon.bukit.tinggi

Wednesday, June 19

bestfriend's overly attached gf

Just realized my "best"friend has this! I wonder if he would choose her over us?? Will never make him choose, just wait and see like before...hope he made the right decision.


Monday, June 17

the unwritten rules aka common sense everyone should follow

Read an article about the 33 unwritten rules everyone should follow.  I absolutely agree on the article, it is awfully distracting when people do these things.  I would easily categorized this type of people as ignorant and selfish, they wouldn't know how distracting they are till they experienced it.  Myself is not perfect, no one is but I try not to do things that would annoyed people.  That is why sometimes I hate being in a public place.  

1.  Taking too long to decide what to order - usually happen to me at McDonalds.

It's not like McD change their menu every day, you should have known by heart what you want to order or have the decency to decide what you would like before it is your turn to order.  It is called fast food, it is meant to be fast.

2.  Stop in the middle of a busy walkpath

I think it is the most annoying thing people do -  stop in the middle of a busy walk path/road just to chit chat. I would normally say excuse me aloud and gave them the stare no matter who they are.  You should not stop in the middle of a busy road just to chit chat.  It is rude and damn selfish if you do that.

3.  Always let people out of the train before entering / always prepare yourself to exit as the door waits for no one

Another common sense, what if a person missed his/her stop just because you refuse to give way for them to exit? and...people should not be mad if they missed their stop if they are taking their own sweet time.

4.  Never put your stuff on an empty seat beside you, it's for people to sit not for you to put your stuff

I once saw a woman with a lot of grocery bags which she placed on an empty seat beside her being ignorant just because she have a lot of stuff which she could put them on her lap and an old man with a walking stick with no where else to sit.

5.  Be extra quiet when there are people sleeping

When you need to do something, be extra quiet when there are people sleeping.  Myself, once awaken by noises, it is hard for me to get back to sleep and I will bother those who wake me.

6. When there are people around you, cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze.

Please do not share your germs!

7.  Be considerate to others like you want others to be considerate to you.

My father will always look out for people who in need of table to eat, when we're done eating, father always say once you are finish, leave the place for others to use, we could always continue chatting in the car.

Always use one side of the escalator/stair if you are not in a hurry.

Do not use the express lane if you are purchasing more than 10 items.

DON'T cut in line. Wait for your turn like everyone else.


I always remind myself to be considerate of others, of course there is nothing wrong with being selfish but only if it is necessary and you could ask nicely instead of being ignorant. You wouldn't want the same thing to happen to you.

#karma-is-a-bitch




Friday, June 14

come what may and loving it

As from today and onwards... I shall stop making promises, instead... I will choose to believe in whatever will be, will be. I will stop feel sorry for myself and people around me. Think less complicated, and if it started getting complicated...leave the scenario and opt for mess-free situation.

Focusing on getting better and continue living life...come what may.


Monday, June 3

baby Lauren Lunde

I'm not crazy about k-pop or Korean drama but when I saw Lauren Hanna Lunde, I totally fall in love with her immediately. She is super cute, a mix of Korean from her mother's side and her father is a Canadian. As per portrayed in Hello Baby with k-pop group MBlaq, she is well-mannered and always surprising people with her charm and her sudden singing performance whenever she feels like it. Hello Baby - international baby edition is the first Korean show that I ever watched because I want to see baby Lauren in action. I first came across the show while browsing through youtube and the show is featured in the recommended section page as I subscribed to mainly beauty and cute baby channel. I have gathered some info taken from various sources (googling) about baby Lauren.


Lauren Hanna Lunde
Born May 16, 2008


with her mom & dad and pet dog named BongPal


newest addition in their family - baby brother, Cooper


Hello Baby - international baby edition with MBlaq group, featuring Leo (Korea+France), DaYoung (Korea+Vietnam) and Lauren (Korea+Canada)

Lauren in Hello Baby:



my current desktop wallpaper - the innocent look of a child's face can really melt your heart...