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Wednesday, July 10

the men in my life...


The men in my life are never sincere, they will treat me extra nice, be extra romantic when they wanted something or need my help. True man, will be himself and they know how to treat the lady right.

The men in my life are mostly jerk, lying about me being the only one but they have someone else either nearby or far away. In this case, I will back away because I do not want to waste my time and someone who think full of himself...thinking girls have to fight for his love, this men are called coward.

The men in my life do not practice and perform the solat or fasting in Ramadhan, only a few did. Thus, I can say that nowadays most men are not fit to be a leader, a father, a husband.

The men in my life take me for granted, date me and be with me only because their girlfriend is far and they are lonely. Although I am patient about it, I never forget. Later they will look for me and tell me how sorry they were, how stupid they were, how much in love they are with me now that I'm no longer with them.

The men in my life thought me to never trust anyone except my family, they thought me that family will be there through thick and thin, through make ups and break ups. To grow up, to be patient, to be extra careful because someone may seem sweet outside but pure bastard inside. Sometimes selfish is a must because no one will love you more like you love yourself.

The men in my life were never loyal, thus I well prepared if anything happens...I believe not to do harm to others so that others will not do harm to you, but if they do...Allah swt is just. What goes around comes around, what goes up must comes down. Never settle for one man until you are finally married.

The men in my life always tell me what to do, wanted me to make daily report but when I ask them how they feel if I were to do the same thing, they just don't know what to say...they wanted me to obey their rules but never mine. In this, I will say inequality! Thus, I am more strict now and stand up everytime or debate on what I think is ridiculous.

Monday, July 8

soul food: Ya Hanana

A day left before Ramadhan, inshaAllah... My current favourite Qasidah, listen to this almost everyday at night before sleep. Food for soul...

#kalau-tengok-halaqah-mesti-banjir #makan-dalam


simple recipe: chicken paprik


please excuse the poor quality image

Servings: 2

Ingredients:
1/4 chicken - cut in cube size
4 tbs chili paste (see below for recipe)
1 red onion - slice
2 tbs chili sauce
2 tbs soy sauce
kaffir lime leaves
1/2 cup of water
Salt and sugar
Cooking oil

Optional:
Long/green beans
Carrot

Method:
1. Stir fry chili paste until a bit dry in medium heat.
2. Add red onion and veggies if any. Pour in half a cup of water...let it simmer a bit.
3. Add chili sauce, soy sauce, salt, sugar to your preference...also the lime leaves.
4 . Lastly, add in chicken.

Additional recipe: chili paste

Cut dried chilies into bits and soak until soften...I normally do 3 handfuls. Drain the liquid and scrape out as many seed as possible because the paste will be too spicy. Put the soaked chilies in electric blender, add 3-4 red onions which have been cut roughly also 2 garlics and a bit of belacan/dried shrimp paste and water. Blend until achieves even consistency. Store in refrigerator.

Wednesday, July 3

my pick of top 20 love songs

  1. i will always love you - whitney houston
  2. a thousand years - cristina perri
  3. i'll make love to you - boyz II men
  4. endless love - diana ross & lionel richie
  5. truly, madly, deeply - savage garden
  6. all my life - k-ci & jojo
  7. can't help falling in love - elvis presley
  8. my heart will go on - celine dion
  9. wonderful tonight - eric clapton
  10. unchained melody - righteous brothers
  11. i don't want to miss a thing - aerosmith
  12. far away - nickelback
  13. always - bon jovi
  14. you're still the one - shania twain
  15. i love the way you love me - boyzone
  16. at last - etta james
  17. if you're not the one - daniel bedingfield
  18. by my side - sade
  19. just the way you are - bruno mars
  20. my all - mariah carey

Monday, July 1

random conversation



girl : abang, harga emas sekarang 130
guy : bila nak turun bawah 100 hehe
girl : impossible kot...tapi harga diamond tak turun...camne tu? silap2 abang kene pegi melombong
guy : diamond tu kan musuh lelaki
girl : abg...keep your friends close but your enemy closer
guy : taknak...abang nak keep sayang closer
girl : banyak betul cekadak kalau cakap pasal diamond ehh...

Friday, June 28

simple recipe: chicken with soy sauce


please excuse the poor quality image

Servings: 2

Ingredients:
1/4 Chicken - cut accordingly (I prefer medium size pieces)
Red onion - slice into rings
Garlic - chop roughly
Ginger - slice thinly
Chili/bird's eye chili a.k.a cili padi - cut to your preference
1 potato - slice into wedges
1 tbs oyster sauce
2 tbs chili sauce
1 tbs soy sauce
Salt and cooking oil
1/2 cup of water

Method:
Fry potato wedges and set aside.
Fry chicken cuts and set aside.
Heat 2 tbs of cooking oil. Throw in red onion and ginger, after awhile add in garlic and chili.
In low heat, add in oyster sauce (stir), chili sauce (stir), soy sauce (stir) and water.
Add salt to taste.
Finally add in fried chicken cuts and potato.

Wednesday, June 26

whole again

One of my many fave, not many know this song but seriously any guy who likes me should listen to this song. Always a fan of slow rock~ Rape the play button!

Whole Again by Edge of Fire (Malaysian band)


a photo of me and eleven random facts

Excerpt from a blog tag game.


  1. I am easily annoyed with mostly the things people do for example when they stop abruptly in the middle of a busy sidewalk or chew with mouth open.
  2. The only singer I will not get bored of listening to is Mariah Carey, my most fave is Hero.
  3. I love movie/tv show with medieval theme such as Lord of the Rings and Game of Thrones.
  4. The only country I have ever been to (except my birth country) is China and the realization of being in China only hits me when I saw the Great Wall of China.
  5. I hate the smell/taste of anything coffee.
  6. I am jobless when I post this entry – been trying to get a job not that my resume is not impressive but it's not great either...just average.
  7. I am a very bad driver, I prefer sitting in the co-pilot seat.
  8. I love masculine-themed interior décor.
  9. I've eaten worm and given a toad a bath during a team-building event without hesitation – looking back, I don't understand how on earth I manage to do them, maybe I was annoyed with the crap activities the facilitators made us do/I'm just tired and want to get it over with quickly. Overall, quite enjoy it, kinda.
  10. I like smart guy over good looking guy.
  11. I don't know how to swim because I'm afraid of the deep water but ironically, I would like to scuba-dive one day.

how to be just friends with a guy



I have a few guy friends and some are my bestfriends. A girl and a guy can be just friends if both agreed to it. Here are some tips on to befriend a guy without leading him on according to my experience.

Set your boundaries right from the very beginning

Make it clear that you want to be just friends and not more than that but in time, when the time is right...marrying your bestfriend is sometimes the best decision. Before that happen, ensure both party understand the situation and agree on friendship.

Do not flirt

When we meet someone from the opposite sex, we tend to flirt if we find the guy attractive. But if you wanted to be just friends, avoid gesture that suggest you are flirting. Flatter is okay but not too much, flatter when it is necessary. Avoid wearing something sexy or provocative. Do not always let the guy open the door for you, avoid being with just him for too long and too often, pay for each others meal – do not let him pay for your meal always, avoid touching him or look him directly in the eyes when he speaks – just act casually or nonchalantly but make sure he knows you are listening. Do not fool him into thinking he has a chance to be your boyfriend by not sending the wrong message to him.

Do not use pet name

Call him by his name...avoid pet name or using it in a sentence, eg: "yes, my dear..."

Avoid talking about past relationship or love life

In my opinion, it is okay to confide but don't go all out because if you do, you will be vulnerable and he might think that you need him. Of course, a friend in need is a friend indeed but remember your boundaries. Avoid commenting on his date or girlfriend or the girl that he likes, just let him decide as people learn from mistake if he does make one. Just be there for him if he needs a friend.

Be straightforward

If he cross the boundaries, let him know. Tell him what you can do or cannot do for him as both are from the opposite sex there are things you cannot do that may lead him on. Now and then, remind him how lucky you are that both of you are friends.

us as students hanging out together @aeon.bukit.tinggi

Wednesday, June 19

bestfriend's overly attached gf

Just realized my "best"friend has this! I wonder if he would choose her over us?? Will never make him choose, just wait and see like before...hope he made the right decision.