honestly,most people i know dont believe that i dont have a boyfriend.they would either GASP in horror, or saying things like "ye ke...?macam tak percaya.." , "kenapa takde boyfriend lagi?" , "eleh..mesti da ade,tp buat2 takde"..
people,for the thousandth times,i honestly dont have a boyfriend..accept the fact k?ive been boyfriendless for 3 years now and i still live happily..no question asked!
if you have to ask why,maybe i havent found that special someone yet..im a bit picky (theres nothing wrong with that,mind you)..i havent found someone who is genuine..who able to make me laugh naturally.who discover my flaws and embrace them truely...mushy stuff like that..boyfriend or boyfriendless,the fun is the same.
let me states why i think being single (for now) is fun
1.you can do whatever you want,whenever you want..you answer no one (except parents lor..) you dont have to report to your boyfriend/girlfriend where you going, with who, when you coming back..stuff like that..troublesome!
2.you can fool around (with care) and flirt with anyone,anywhere,anytime...flirting is fun.in good manners la..
3.you can seriously focus on your education,career,goals alone.
4.you have more time with your family and friends..
5.you can save money on top up for example...then you can buy shoes,clothes,make up.
6.you dont get your heart break when the man dumps you for some random chick.
7.you are more emotionally stable..no jealousy,merajuk 24/7..those extraordinary emotions that couple have.
8.you have more time just being yourself,do whatever you like and you dont have to try hard to impress your partner..admit it,sometimes your bf/gf wants you to quit smoking,change your styles,ask you to lose weight,accompany him to the gym,go shopping with her..sometimes you get tired doing the same thing over and over again with the same person,it almost annoys you...for some people that is.
these are not the reasons why you have to be single..these are why i think being single ROCKS!maybe my view is diff from yours.some people cant live without having a bf/gf..the minute they break up,the next day they are with someone new.maybe they think that boyfriendless makes them sorta loser..(no offense there).
i dont have boyfriend (yet) and im not a loser.
i guess,what im trying to say is,theres no rushing things..be patient and you dont have to jump into relationship just because others are doing it.being single is fun!
